We always read before bedtime. Jim and I take turns putting the boys to bed. Tonight was my night with Owen. After he has his stories, he sometimes likes you to tell him another story while he gets snuggles and kisses. Other nights he just likes to ask us a kajllion questions about random things that have been on his mind. Often times he blows me away with the complexity of the ideas he understands; like the time when he was two and I explained to him the process by which it becomes night, meaning the Earth turning and the moon reflecting the sun's light. He still occasionally says, "Mom, when the Earth turns and the moon comes out, then will it be dark?" and other associated questions.
Tonight was by far the most amazing conversation I have had with him yet. It all started with him saying:
O: People were alive during the dinosaurs but just not houses and cars.
Me: No, honey, dinosaurs lived billions of years ago. WAY before people or houses or cars, but there may have been sharks, crocodiles and fish then, but I think they were different than they are now.
O: Did the sharks and fish breath water?
Me: Huh? Oh yeah, they breath water through their gills.
O: And the crocodiles breath air.
Me: Yep, like other reptiles.
O: But people can't breath water.
Me: No, we need oxygen (here comes the nerd alert) although.... if you heat water and turn it to steam, you can breath it because it is in a gas form.
O: We can breath gas, like from a car.
Me: Well, it's not good to breath the gas that comes out of the car as exaust because the fumes are dirty and bad for our lungs. That's why we like to drive hybrids, we emit fewer fumes. We need oxygen to breath and water has oxygen in it.
O: Oxygen and hydrogen
(This is something we have talked about while washing our hands. I say H2O is hydrogen and oxygen and he, being the contradicting 3 year old he is, say, "No, oxygen
then hydrogen)
Me: Yeah, but it changes when you heat it and it goes into the air (which he has learned from reading
Magic School Bus: Wet All Over, so also not terribly new info.)
Long Pause of reflection
Me: Kind of like caterpillars. They start out as a caterpillar and then they change into something else.
O: They turn into butterflies.
Me: Water can change, too, and so, you can kind of breath water, but only when it's a gas. OK?
Long pause with a look of understanding.
O: OK
Then the traditional...
Me: I love you. Goodnight.
O: I love you, too. Goodnight.
Then as I'm leaving the room:
O: But Mama?
Me: Yeah?
O: Scuba divers can breath under water because they have a special tank on their backs.
Me: Yep. OK We'll talk more tomorrow. Goodnight.
O: Night, Mama