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July 30, 2011

The Pre-Hitching Party

 Jim, his sister and I drove down to Rochester tonight to join the Rochester Letts clan in a Pre-Hitching party for the Letts twins: Connor & Will.  They are having a double wedding the weekend after Gina gets married, so you can imagine how much celebrating we Lettses have going on right now.
 The pre-hitching party was a giant love fest.  Everyone was hugging...
(Erin's maid of honor made a surprise trip to MN)
 and smiling...
(Will's fiance, Rachel, and our cousin Claire)
 and kissing...
(Erin [bride-to-be] and Connor)
 and taking self portraits like this ...
(me and Jim's cousin Will)
and this.
(me and Jim's cousin Claire)
 And hugging some more...
(Hmm.  Me and Jim's cousin's fiance - who will soon share my name)
 and more.
(Connor and Jim)
and then, too soon, a long drive home in a downpour.
(Thanks for driving Beaner.)

July 23, 2011

U2 360˚ Tour

I've been trying to see U2 in concert for over half of my life now.  I did finally get to see them during their last tour and it was good, but when we heard the 360˚ was going to be held at the new outdoor stadium at the U, we had to get tickets.  To me (and Jim) there is really nothing better than seeing a really great outdoor concert.  We were lucky enough to get tickets some decent tickets, but then Jim's sister's fiance got several even better tickets, so we decided to sell ours and upgrade.  Then came the news that the concert was to be postponed as Bono was recovering from a recent back surgery.  We waited another year and now, finally, the concert is here. 
 My cousin Kristin was super excited to get our other tickets.  She brought her AMAZING friend Denise who deserves a blog post all of her own.  Let's just say, if I couldn't meet Bono, the honor of getting to know Denise was the next best thing.  Kris & Denise road in from Hayward.  We swung over and picked up Gina & Adam and then headed to Psycho Suzi's for dinner and some stellar drinks.
Thanks to Adam, we got really decent parking and made it to the stadium in time to hear Interpol.  We were in the "Red Zone", but I could see Kristin & Denise walking around on the upper deck.  Apparently their seats were not so great, so they just roamed around looking for empty seats.
Down on the floor, things got a little crazy.  A guy behind us suddenly collapsed.  I grabbed Adam's soda and shoved him and Jim toward the guy to see what was going on.  The guy's lips were blue, but they were able to rouse him.  Jim elevated his legs while Adam got the history.  It was kind of exciting and helped pass the time as we patiently waited for our headliners.
FINALLY!  The sun began to sink.  The breeze began to blow and the sound was amazing as it filled the summer air.  But then it began to rain.  Not just rain.  It poured.  It poured for 45 minutes!  Luckily there was no lightening, so the concert went on.  Kris & Denise had lucked out and got some great, abandoned seats under the balcony.
See? Here we are before the concert, all happy & dry...
And here we are mid-concert, soaking wet, but still happy.  Rain was pouring down our faces.  Gina pulled a cap out of her pack for me which eased the misery a little.
 
But Bono kept his spirits up & so did the crowd.
Occasionally he came out with an umbrella from somebody.
(Weren't our seats awesome?)
But for the most part, he suffered right along with us and the music was no less great despite Mother Nature's attempts to bring down the house.

July 20, 2011

Tennis Anyone?

 I may have mentioned that I signed the boys up for tennis this summer.  Did I mention that they hated it.  That would be "hated" --- past tense.  Now, they LOVE it.  It's all they ever want to do.  My friend Nina was distraught when she found out the class she signed her son up for was every day.  Now I sort of wish I had signed up for that class.  My only other regret is that I can't practice with them as much as I'd like because it's really hard to practice tennis with a toddler running around the court.  However, now that we live only a few blocks from some great tennis courts, we have been able to run down to the park when Jim gets home to hit a few balls.
 Evan's form is a little rough.  When he gets his grip right, he often gets his stance wrong.
 Owen has made a lot of improvement with some a little practice at home.  His mouth even reflects his concentration.
 Evan does a lot of watching...
 and I think it pays off.  He's patient and doesn't try to hammer the ball.  Too bad classes are over.  Another month and these guys would really have a good base.
Mia also had some good lessons too.  She was the Top Sharer in the Spectating Class.

July 17, 2011

Our Relatives are a Hoot!

What do you bring for snacks to a family reunion in Wisconsin?  Cheese and crackers perhaps?  Popcorn maybe?  Beer, right?  Well one "wise bass" relative thought to bring chocolate covered raisins disguised as Wisconsin Cow Poop.  Speaking of wise basses, apparently when my folks arrived to the reunion, my dad ran upstairs to put on this T-shirt.  I think he wore it more days than not.  Does that explain a few things about us?
 
We arrived in Madison about 2 a.m. on Saturday morning. Add to that the capitol, the Farmer's Market, and the cruise and by Saturday night I was in no condition to go bar hopping with my cousins.  Instead, I stayed in the with the older and younger generations who really know how to have a good time.  This game has been coined, "Snordoff."  It originates from slumber parties and study halls at OFHS, but has now most likely become a Stewart Family Tradition.  When Kaitlynn (my cousin Jody's youngest daughter) first told me of this game, I saw the direction of the night take a turn for the better.  I beat her at her own game, but my father quickly put me in my place.  Kaitlynn and my dad were a tough match.  Kaitlynn pulled out all the stops, but in the end, she laughed at her own snort.
My Uncle Ron (Kaitlynn's Grandfather, wouldn't ya know) is a bit of a story teller.  He actually puts many Stewarts to shame.  Somehow Owen always gets him to tell a bear story.  Unlike my late Great Uncle Stu, the story is not always the same.  Still, I'd love to hear Uncle Stu's famous bear story one more time.
A breakfast of champions in the hotel room.  I remembered to bring cereal, but I forgot bowls and spoons.  Luckily my mom had a couple of spoons and the water glasses made a decent cereal bowl.
The last day of the reunion, my dad's cousin Michelle and her family hosted a BBQ at their house.  Mia loved looking at her daughter, Nikki's, prom photo book.  All the girls looked like princesses in their poofy gowns.  It sort of reminded me of the dresses the girls wore when her mom was the Lake Martha Day Queen*.
These goofballs are not only my relatives, but three of them will graduate this spring and be turned out into the world for better or for worse.  Luckily they are all really amazing kids.  Evan fell in love with Nikki.  David & Alex remind me a lot of my own boys.  Gives me a glimmer of my future and I must say, it's looks crazy, but good.  Kaitlynn, of course, will most get a free ride to any college of her choice given her immense snorting skills and ability to turn in one eyeball.  The scary thing is that the only other person I know who can do it is my equally snortily gifted father.  There must be some connection.
These were the graduates a generation ago: my cousin Matt, my dad's cousin Michelle, my cousin Jody and my dad's cousin Brad.  There was a bit of an age spread in my Grandfather's family.
And these wonderful souls are my elders.  My great aunt Sarah (Uncle Stu's wife), my grandfather's youngest brother, Don and his wife Karen. 
Uncle Don is quite the photographer and has always taken the family photo at the family reunion, but usually we set up a tri-pod.  This year, it was 100˚ in the shade, so the picture had to be taken inside.  There was no room for a tri-pod, so I was given the honors of setting up the family photo.  I think it turned out pretty nice except that right after this was taken, the door bell rang and my cousin Matt waltzed in.
Anyway, we all had a really great time.  I went out for Italian with my parents, aunts and uncles before we packed up and headed back to MN.  The next day, Evan was still exhausted.  When we got home from swimming lessons, he was so tired, he couldn't even take his shoes off.  After about 10 minutes, I went in to check on him and found him like this.


*The float is exactly the same as it was back then, too.

July 16, 2011

Stewart Family Reunion Cruise

During our second family reunion, 8 years ago, we took a cruise around Lake Monona.  The three hour cruise was leisurely.  We enjoyed dinner, visited with family, and watched a beautiful sunset and we floated past the capitol. 
 Eight years later, the cruise was about the same except it didn't feel quite so leisurely.  I look at the photos and it looks peaceful, but keeping track of three little kids without life jackets on a slightly crowded boat was anything but relaxing for me this time around.  Despite spending most of the three hours in high alert, there were some beautiful moments, like when the captain let Owen steer the boat.
And watching Evan point out the scenic points to Bumpa.
We took a quick photo op (sans Mia) on the deck,
but I spent a lot of time entertaining Mia in the cabin where I knew she was safe.  I guess the dock incident is still a little too fresh in my mind.
Still, you can't really keep an almost 2 year old in a cabin for three hours when there is so much more to see on deck.  She even got a turn driving the boat!
As we passed Union Terrace, (note: it's called "Union" Terrace) the sun began to sink.  The sky was so beautiful.  Evan and I enjoyed the views from the front of the ship.

With the capitol now behind us, we spent the last half an hour on the back of the boat...
still careful to keep at least one hand on each kid.

Fighting for Unions in Madison

We went to Madison this weekend for my Stewart family reunion.  The idea to begin having an annual reunion happened the day after Jim and I were married.  The Stewart clan had brunch at the hotel and then we gathered outside for the first of many family photos.  Somebody said, "We need to do this more often," and thus began a tradition.  Each year a different segment of the family hosts, so the cities rotate.  This year the LeBarron/Vetterkind segment hosted in Madison
The very first thing we did when we got up, was head down to the capitol.  The Farmer's Market and Maxwell Street Days were teeming with pedestrians, plus the Paddle and Portage Canoe Race was going on.  But we didn't bother with any of that, at least at first.  We marched right up those capitol stairs.

For months I have been feeling the pull to join the protesters in Madison defending the bargaining rights of unions.  Although I am not currently directly involved with a union, I feel deeply that we need to be protect the rights of working class people, especially in the public sector.  These employees are not people planning their next corporate takeover.  These are people who just want what every person in America should have: good health care, decent wages, and job security.  I believe that without the ability to bargain, our government will further take these servicepeople for granted.  It is an attempt to mute the working class. Further draining of the middle class, in my opinion, is not the answer to our budget problems.  The issue is of such importance to me, that many times this year I considered pulling Owen out of school and taking all three kids to Madison by myself, in the cold, to join in the movement.
As usual with this topic, I've gone off on an emotional tangent.  So, back to Capitol Square.  We marched up the capitol stairs and looked up at the windows of officials who offer their allegiance to the masses who elected them.  I could tell Owen was excited about it all.  He naturally shares his parents' passion for politics.  I was excited, too.
I remember the first time I looked up at that ceiling.  Like the boys, I had seen the outside of the capitol many times.  Of course they've been looking at the capitol in St. Paul, but it's the same idea.  I had assumed that the inside of the dome was full of floors and rooms.  I was surprised when I saw the beautifully decorated hollow of the dome.
We walked around on all of the levels.
When we came back down, an activist began singing, "We Shall Overcome" in the center of the dome. Looking down at my children, I could not hold back the tears.  I thought about how many times groups of Americans have had to fight their oppressors.  I thought about what might happen to our government services if wages and benefits continue to dwindle.  I imagined the gap between the rich and poor continuing to widen from underfunded public education.  I envisioned service jobs regressing back to a time where safety and the well-being of employees was second to production.  And most of all, I pictured my children living in such a world.  The man was not musically gifted, but his voice was definitely making an impact on me.   Jim was not making good use of my camera, so I took over and, unfortunately, only caught the last portion.
"Genius of Wisconsin" originally sculpted by Helen Mears in 1893. 
And thus began the Stewart Family Reunion 2011.
 As we were leaving the capitol, Jim took the stroller down the hillside, while Owen and I took the stairs to investigate a statue and the overall Madison scene.  When we looked to the grassy area, we saw that Jim was abandoning the stroller!  Owen and I jumped over a rope, ran down the hill and then spotted the reason.  Just beyond the abandoned stroller was a Bakery Stand.  My mom, who had been walking across the street, noticed the abandoned stroller at the same time and had the same thought as me.  Jim collected some donuts and we joined Ya-ya, Bumpa and Great Aunt Sarah on a bunch for a rest and a snack.
 The larger Stewart clan gathered at The Great Dane Pub for lunch.  My long lost twin cousin, Elizabeth, pictured here with me and her daughter, Claire, were some of the many family members whom I only get to see once every year or two.
 Not only was the company and food good, but The Greater Stewart Family was seated in the nicely shaded and fairly private corner of the outdoor patio!  I have visited this establishment many times and never even knew this spot existed.  It was a great start to our family reunion weekend.

July 12, 2011

First Kayak at Home

 We are so lucky that our new place is situated only two blocks from a wonderfully underpopulated chain of lakes.  Connie has so graciously lent us some of her kayaks to keep at our house for spur of the moment kayak opportunities.  Tonight just happened to be one of those times.  Connie showed up at our house with one more kayak, which made just enough for our whole family to go.  Jim was working his usual hours, so Connie, the kids and I loaded the kayaks in Connie's car and drove over to the boat landing.
 The boat landing is between Lake Gervais and Keller Lake.  It is incredibly peaceful.  There were several groups of people fishing off the shore.  Families of geese, some egrets and a great blue heron decorated the shoreline and provided wonderful entertainment for Mia.
Owen got to paddle on his own today.  We hooked him up to my kayak for awhile, but some of the time he did it all on his own.  We didn't go very far, but were out for about an hour.  Just perfect for our first kayak trip at home.

Thank you Connie.  I would not have had the confidence to try this without you.  It was so fun and I can't wait to do it again!