Jim's brother's family hosted Christmas this year
and they invited us to
stay the night.

Auntie Gina gave all the big kids lacrosse sets.
Mia got an entire set of dancing princesses from her cousins.
I didn't think I would ever be able to get this Cinderella out of my house still in the box. Mia stole it from my "wrapping station" a dozen times. When you push Cinderella's necklace, her chest glows blue and plays a magical sounding song.
Evan insisted on bringing
Owen's treasure box. He filled it with change from his piggy bank which he wanted to give to each person in the family. It was so heavy, I could hardly lift it. He had wanted to do a treasure hunt at his
birthday party. He'd been planning it since Easter! With all the
chaos the week before his party, we forgot all about the treasure hunt. He was crushed after the party when he remembered. So, today we did let him pass out some coins to each person, but I'm not sure he got the reaction he was looking for. We'll have to come up with another idea.
After presents, the kids went downstairs to practice their acts for the talent show we planned to surprise Grandma & Grandpa. Evan was about to give up on the puppet skit he planned with Addie, but I finally was able to get them to practice a few times without Addie bursting into silliness. I thought it turned out pretty good.
All Mia wanted to do was sing "Jingle Bells." I'm not sure if someone loaded her up with sugar just before the performance or what, but instead of singing she was bouncing off the walls... and off of Addie!
Owen planned to sing with Ellie, but I don't think they really practiced. She got stage fright after listening to her sister laugh at them. Owen went on despite only knowing half of the words.

After the show, the kids snacked on the giant plate of fruit. Then the adults began
sharing our charity gifts. Jim and I shared a new charity this year:
Save the Redwoods League, which we found after our
life-changing trip this fall. Jim's parents gave a generous donation in each of our names to The
Center for Victims of Torture (CVT,) an organization that has been close to our hearts
for years. Ellie gave us each a beaded ornament she bought at church that was made by Maasai women through
WorldCrafts. The money made from these ornaments is enough to replace goats that die during the dry periods in Tanzania & ensure that the women can nourish their children. I don't exactly remember all of the details of the charities because right in the middle of it, there was an unexpected visitor.
Jeff, an old high school friend who also knows Jen from college, stopped in. He was home for the holidays from Chicago. And then somewhere between the visiting and charities, the bed shuffling began.
We tried to pair the kids up with their same age cousin, but my kids are night owls and T & J's are up at the crack of dawn. After an hour of trying, we ended up with Ellie & Owen in the basement, Mia with Jim in Addie's room, Evan slept with me in Ellie's room, and Addie & Margaux slept in Margaux's room. Between our visits, our charity sharing and the game of Musical Beds, we might have let the little ones get a little riled up in the bedrooms. But hey, it's Christmas! And in the end, we all had a cozy bed to sleep in - something that not everyone has. Which reminds me to share with you
the charity we did not share with the family this year, but that is always near our hearts:
The Listening House or as many call it, the livingroom for the homeless. I'm not going to lecture here, but if you look around and see you have enough, if you're local to Saint Paul, if you want to give a gift that really makes a direct difference in the lives of others, consider giving to
The Listening House.

As usual, Evan was the last to rise. Addie waited as long as she could. Mia doesn't like to miss out on any fun, so even though she was tired, she popped out of bed once she saw her cousins.
Yummy tea ring and fruit for breakfast. You can see my kiddos are still half asleep. It was a quiet ride home.
THANKS FOR A LOVELY
CHRISTMAS CELEBRATION TOM & JEN!